Understandable. I'd like to speak to you about your "bad side," as I had it described to me. I'm concerned, not only for other's safety, but also your own.

[It's said with complete sincerity, and she gives a small nod]

I wish to understand, first and foremost. I don't wish to make any assumptions, and would, if you would be willing, to work towards a potential solution that minimizes risk of injury for yourself and others.